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Bismillah.

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‘Nisa nak buat apa dengan benda tu?’ 

‘Nak tukar bateri kereta.’

‘Tukar sendiri?’ .

‘Yup kak.’

‘Nak tengok nak tengok!’ 


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Ada orang kata jadilah perempuan berdikari. Semua hal boleh buat sendiri tanpa perlu menyusahkan orang lain. Hidup dengan single mother selama 11 tahun, aku memahami frasa ringkas ini.

Cuma satu hal yang kadang-kadang buat aku risau. Risau dengan kenyataan John Gray : 

‘Do you know why women right now refuse to married? Because they can do anything without men anymore.’ 

John Gray membahaskan mengenai perbezaan wanita tradisional dan wanita moden dalam bukunya.

‘Naturally, traditional women need men because they can’t do certain things that men can do. Thus, men as their natural behaviour will feel strong when they feel they’re needed especially request that come from women.’ 


Hm. 

K lah. Tak nak lah pandai semua benda.

Eh.

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